A very simple thought today. This is your day. Many people will try to get involved (take over!) but above all other days, this is about the two of you.
So the message for today - Ask for what you want!
There are a lot of people you deal with while planning a wedding, who have a huge amount of experience in weddings, receptions and planning those big days. That doesn't mean they are running the show.
What that means is they have a huge amount of experience for you to draw on. But never feel you can't ask for what you want, or tell them if you think they are on the wrong track. Every so often someone asks me a brilliant question that has an angle or an idea I've never thought of!
The moment you feel that something is being planned that you don't want to happen, make sure you speak up. There are two big reasons why you shouldn't stay silent;
1) You're paying!
2) Your supplier wants you to have a great day. The last thing they would want is for you to leave unhappy. But they'll never know if you don't tell them!